I’m going to get honest first thing, I don’t do Valentine’s day. My kids of course get to buy/make Valentine’s- before the chronic illness came crashing in I would have sewn the girls matching outfits.
If your new here, Im Amy, and used to be one of those Pinterest/crafty moms before health issues changed the game. I’ve been trying to find myself again, I’ve climbed many metaphorical mountains, been low in the hollers but, love always conquers.
Life this past year has been something none of us were prepared for, but this slower pace has been a breath of fresh air. I’ve also been healing from open-heart surgery, looking death in the face has made me LOVE simple mornings on the porch, hot coffee, sunsets, time spent with my family, meaningful moments that I once would have overlooked.
Before we get into all the fun and slightly embarrassing topics of intimacy, I wanted to make sure that we’re taking care of us too- we can’t pour from and an empty cup. Weather you and your partner are celebrating V-day together or if your single and rocking it, some self-love is needed, and so important for our physical and mental health.
Have you ever walked by someone or something and the smell instantly transported you back to grandmas house, or some other memory? Smells especially in high-grade essential oils can help us relax, and set the mood for intimacy. Scientists have discovered that we even subconsciously use smells to pick a partner.
Each of the oils below have aphrodisiac properties and can be used in your diffuser, applied to the body in a sensual massage and even as personal lubricants.
Here’s a few love potions you can mix up to have on hand, whenever the mood strikes. Simple & Sweet was my first introduction into using oils during sexy time. I keep a bottle of Ylang Ylang on my night stand, a few drops goes along ways. Try it. I promise you’ll be thanking me later.
Essential Oils are so amazing to me, not only can these particular oils help your sex life, but they also have so many more health benefits. For example, Ylang Ylang applied to the ankles can help with hot flashes, Clary sage assists the body with menstrual-related symptoms plus so much more.
The Starter Kit includes your membership fee (like Sam’s Club or Costco) which gets your 25% off all products plus tons of perks, 10ml bottle of Ylang Ylang, 10ml bottle of Clary Sage, and a 15ml roller bottle of Clary Calm.
Want more oils or a different starter kit? Contact me on here or any of my social platforms and I’d be more than happy to discuss your health goals.
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